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Songs for your brother

28 songs · Updated 4 October 2026

Brothers rarely say the soft thing out loud. A song can do it for you: sent on his birthday with no explanation, played in the slideshow at his wedding, or dropped into the group chat when he has had a bad week.

Every song here is a real recording, with a line on why it fits and when to use it. Some are about brothers, some are the songs you shouted along to in the back seat, and a few are for the moments when he needs to know you are there.

Songs about brothers

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    He Ain't Heavy, He's My Brother — The Hollies, 1969

    The original brother song. Slow and sincere, and the title says everything you would struggle to.

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    Brother — NEEDTOBREATHE, 2014

    A promise to carry each other when one of you falls behind. Builds into a big chorus that works in a wedding video.

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    Hey Brother — Avicii, 2013

    Folk verses over a dance beat. For a brother who would rather hear it at a party than in a card.

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    Brothers in Arms — Dire Straits, 1985

    Quiet and long. For a brother in the forces, or one you have been through something serious with.

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    Brother — Kodaline, 2015

    About a friendship so close it became family. Good for a stepbrother or a brother-in-law too.

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    Brother — Matt Corby, 2011

    Raw and stripped back. Less of a tribute, more of an honest conversation.

For when he needs you

For a break-up, a lost job, an illness or a long stretch of not talking.

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    I'll Be There — The Jackson 5, 1970

    Sung by brothers, about turning up. Send it with one line and leave it at that.

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    With a Little Help from My Friends — Joe Cocker, 1968

    Gravelly and big-hearted. For the brother who would never ask for help but needs it.

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    Fix You — Coldplay, 2005

    For the worst weeks. It starts small and lifts, which is what you are hoping for him.

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    Keep Your Head Up — Andy Grammer, 2011

    Light and encouraging without being preachy. Good for a younger brother who has hit a wall.

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    Hall of Fame — The Script, 2012

    Loud belief in someone. For the morning of a tryout, a final or a first day at a new job.

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    You've Got a Friend in Me — Randy Newman, 1995

    If you grew up with Toy Story together, this one will land harder than it should.

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    Stand by Me — Ben E. King, 1961

    Short, warm and impossible to dislike. Works for a best man walking in, too.

Or have a song written about him

The bunk bed fights, the car you shared, the time he covered for you. Tell us a few of those stories and TunedForYou writes a song that could only be about your brother, with his name in it.

One we made, to hear what it sounds like

My Hero, My Dad
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My Hero, My Dad

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"You taught me how to stand up tall To get back up whenever I fall Dad, you're my hero through it all Happy birthday to the greatest..."

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You tell us about them, we write and sing it, and you hear a preview before you decide.

Road trips and the back seat

The songs you fought over, then both sang.

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    Born to Run — Bruce Springsteen, 1975

    For the first road trip without your parents, or the one you keep saying you will take.

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    The Boys Are Back in Town — Thin Lizzy, 1976

    For when he comes home after a long time away. Play it as he walks in.

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    Mr. Brightside — The Killers, 2004

    If you are both in your thirties, you will both know every word. Bachelor party essential.

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    Don't Stop Believin' — Journey, 1981

    The one that ends every family karaoke night. Loud and a little ridiculous, which is the point.

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    Sweet Child O' Mine — Guns N' Roses, 1987

    For the brother who taught you the opening riff, or tried to.

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    Life Is a Highway — Tom Cochrane, 1991

    Pure driving song. Put it on the playlist for his move to a new city.

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    Glory Days — Bruce Springsteen, 1984

    About old stories told over beers. For a milestone birthday when you are both suddenly older.

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    Seven Nation Army — The White Stripes, 2003

    The riff from every stadium you went to together. For a sports-mad brother.

For his wedding, a new baby or a big birthday

Songs for the speech, the slideshow or the card.

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    Forever Young — Rod Stewart, 1988

    A list of good wishes for someone you love. A natural fit for a best man slideshow.

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    My Wish — Rascal Flatts, 2006

    Hopes for the road ahead. Good from an older brother on a younger one's wedding day.

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    You're Gonna Miss This — Trace Adkins, 2008

    For a brother about to become a dad. Gently funny and true.

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    Count on Me — Bruno Mars, 2010

    Easy and upbeat. For a birthday message when you do not want to get too serious.

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    See You Again — Wiz Khalifa, 2015

    Written for a friend who was like a brother. For a brother moving abroad, or one you have lost.

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    Lean on Me — Bill Withers, 1972

    Simple and steady. Ends a slideshow well because everyone can hum along.

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    Times Like These — Foo Fighters, 2002

    About learning to live again after a rough patch. For a brother starting over.

How to choose

Keep the message short

Most brothers do not want a speech. A song and one line ("this was on the radio the day you crashed Dad's car") says plenty.

Use the song you shared

The album you both wore out, the band you saw together, the song your parents played every Sunday. Shared history beats anything on a chart.

For a wedding, think about length

A best man slideshow runs about three to four minutes. Pick one song that fits the whole thing, or two: one funny, one that lands the ending.

Funny is allowed

If your relationship runs on insults, a joke song with a sincere note underneath it will mean more than a straight ballad.

Questions people ask

What is a good song to dedicate to my brother?

"He Ain't Heavy, He's My Brother" by The Hollies is the classic. "Brother" by NEEDTOBREATHE and "Hey Brother" by Avicii are more recent favourites. A song from your own shared past usually means the most.

What song can I play for my brother at his wedding?

"Forever Young" by Rod Stewart, "My Wish" by Rascal Flatts or "Stand by Me" work well for a best man slideshow or a toast. Keep it to one song if the slideshow is under four minutes.

What song should I send my brother when he is struggling?

"I'll Be There" by The Jackson 5, "Fix You" by Coldplay or "Lean on Me" by Bill Withers, with a short message saying you are around.

What is a good birthday song for a brother?

Something you both shouted along to as kids, or a fun pick like "Mr. Brightside" or "The Boys Are Back in Town". For a milestone birthday, "Glory Days" is a fond look back.

Can I get a song written about my brother?

Yes. TunedForYou writes a personal song from the memories you share, with his name and your stories in it. You hear a preview before you decide to keep it.

More song lists

Looking for a song written just for them? Birthday songs made to order · A song for your best friend · Wedding songs

Or have a song written about him

Their name, your stories, the things only the two of you would get. Written and sung for them.

Write a song for my brother