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Songs for a mom who has passed away

25 songs · Updated 4 October 2026

The funeral is one day. Missing your mom is every day after it, and it tends to come back hardest on Mother's Day, on her birthday, and on the date she died. This list is for those days.

Some of these songs are about losing a parent. Some are simply about mothers, and hit differently once she is gone. Every one is a real recording. If you are planning her service now, our list of funeral songs for Mom is grouped by the parts of the service.

Songs about missing her

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    Supermarket Flowers — Ed Sheeran, 2017

    Written about his grandmother, told from his mother's side: clearing out the hospital room. Many people hear their own mom in it.

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    You Should Be Here — Cole Swindell, 2015

    Written about his father, for every big day a parent misses. For a wedding or graduation without her.

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    If Heaven Wasn't So Far Away — Justin Moore, 2011

    Wishing you could drive up for an afternoon with the people you lost. Gentle country.

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    Slipped Away — Avril Lavigne, 2004

    Raw and young-sounding. For someone who lost their mom too early.

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    Hold On — Chord Overstreet, 2017

    Quiet and pleading. For the hardest weeks after.

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    The Living Years — Mike + The Mechanics, 1988

    About a father, but for anyone with things left unsaid to a parent.

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    Fix You — Coldplay, 2005

    For grief that does not lift. It starts small and slowly rises.

For Mother's Day and her birthday

Songs about mothers that you can play on her days, now that she is not here to hear them.

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    A Song for Mama — Boyz II Men, 1997

    Thank you, Mama. Simple and grateful, and it holds up on the hard days.

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    Mama's Song — Carrie Underwood, 2010

    A daughter telling her mother she will be okay. Comforting from the other side.

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    Dear Mama — 2Pac, 1995

    An honest, complicated tribute. For a mom who was not perfect and was everything.

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    The Best Day — Taylor Swift, 2008

    A daughter remembering the ordinary days with her mom. Lovely over home videos.

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    Mother Like Mine — The Band Perry, 2010

    Gratitude for a mother who taught you everything. Easy for a family to share.

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    Mama — Spice Girls, 1997

    If you grew up in the nineties, this might be the song she cried at.

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    Mama Liked the Roses — Elvis Presley

    Short and plain, about a mother remembered through her garden.

A song about her

Some people ask for a song written about their mom: where she came from, what she always said, what her kitchen smelled like. If that would help, TunedForYou can write one from what you tell us. Many people keep it for Mother's Day or her birthday, or share it with the family.

Tell us about her

You tell us about them, we write and sing it, and you hear a preview before you decide.

On the anniversary

For the date she died, the first year and the years after.

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    Angel — Sarah McLachlan, 1997

    Soft and enveloping. For sitting with the day rather than fighting it.

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    Over the Rainbow — Israel Kamakawiwoʻole, 1993

    Ukulele and a light voice. Comfort without heaviness.

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    Dancing in the Sky — Dani and Lizzy, 2016

    Wondering what heaven looks like for her. Simple and tender.

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    I'll See You Again — Westlife, 2001

    A quiet promise of meeting again. For a family with faith.

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    Butterfly Fly Away — Miley Cyrus, 2009

    A gentle song about letting someone go. For a young daughter or son.

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    Heaven Was Needing a Hero — Jo Dee Messina

    For a mother who fought a long illness. Country, warm and proud.

Songs that sound like her

For carrying on the things she taught you.

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    Coat of Many Colors — Dolly Parton, 1971

    About a coat her mother sewed from rags, and the love stitched into it. For a mom who made do.

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    I Hope You Dance — Lee Ann Womack, 2000

    Advice a mother gives her child. It can feel like she is still saying it.

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    Mother — Kacey Musgraves, 2018

    A minute and a bit about suddenly missing your mom. Short and very true.

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    Three Little Birds — Bob Marley & The Wailers, 1977

    Every little thing is gonna be all right. The kind of thing moms say.

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    Here Comes the Sun — The Beatles, 1969

    For the first day the grief eases a little. You are allowed that.

A few practical things

Make a playlist of her songs

Ask siblings, her friends and her sisters which songs remind them of her. A shared playlist is something the whole family can come back to.

Give the day a ritual

Playing one song at the same time every year on her birthday or anniversary gives a hard day a shape.

Play the songs she played

The album that was always in her car may mean more than any song on this page. It is fine if it makes you smile rather than cry.

Share it with someone

Sending a song to a sibling on the anniversary is a gentle way of saying "I am thinking of her too" without having to find the words.

Questions people ask

What is a good song for a mom who passed away?

"Supermarket Flowers" by Ed Sheeran is one of the most chosen. "A Song for Mama" by Boyz II Men, "Angel" by Sarah McLachlan and "If Heaven Wasn't So Far Away" by Justin Moore are also often played.

What song can I play on Mother's Day after losing my mom?

"The Best Day" by Taylor Swift, "Mother Like Mine" by The Band Perry or "A Song for Mama" by Boyz II Men. Many people play a song she loved instead.

What song is good for the anniversary of my mom's death?

Something gentle like "Over the Rainbow" by Israel Kamakawiwoʻole or "Dancing in the Sky" by Dani and Lizzy. Some families play the same song every year.

What song fits a wedding when the bride's or groom's mom has passed?

"You Should Be Here" by Cole Swindell is often played during a moment of remembrance. "I Hope You Dance" is a gentler choice.

Can a song be written about my mom who passed away?

Yes. You share her story with TunedForYou and we write a song about her life, with her name in it, to keep or share with your family.

More song lists

Looking for a song written just for them? Songs written for Mom · Mother's Day songs

We are sorry for your loss. If a song about her would help, whether for the service or later, we are here: tell us about her.